Over the course of my years as a youth pastor there are many things that I have wanted to know. At different times the one secret that if I knew it could change everything has changed. Right now I think the secret would be how to convince boys to stop picking on each other. I understand when they are young, but the guys in my group are seniors and are still doing it. It just tears our group apart.
Watching them is funny. I promise you could do a nature documentary on them like they are apes who are trying to establish dominance. I wish I could go in and just set up a pecking order that can’t change so at least they would stop messing with each other all the time.