Over the course of my years as a youth pastor there are many things that I have wanted to know. At different times the one secret that if I knew it could change everything has changed. Right now I think the secret would be how to convince boys to stop picking on each other. I understand when they are young, but the guys in my group are seniors and are still doing it. It just tears our group apart.
Watching them is funny. I promise you could do a nature documentary on them like they are apes who are trying to establish dominance. I wish I could go in and just set up a pecking order that can’t change so at least they would stop messing with each other all the time.
Shane, we’re 34, have kids and real jobs, and we still do it.